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SENSUALITY posted: 10 10 09
These days many of us have a tendency to confuse being sexy with being perfect - however we define perfection. We strive to be thin, or rich, or dressed head-to-toe in designer labels - all in a quest to be desirable. And it’s understandable. After all, who doesn’t want to be wanted?
Sensuality has a direct link to sexuality. So if you’re out to attract some action - of the committed kind, or otherwise - and you’re looking for some ways to boost your sex appeal, consider diving into your senses. Your state of mind and your libido will reap the rewards! Sexiness, after all, is a state of mind!
Here are ways to boost your sensuality, one sense at a time!
Touch
The skin is the body’s most sensitive organ , and ideally you want yours to be both soft to the touch and ready to do some touching! So skincare is not the place to pinch pennies. Even if you have to be choosy about which products you splurge on (and most of us - save a few financially fortunate - do), make sure to purchase self-care items that make you feel your sexiest.Luxe lotions, bath beads, a good skin scrub that leaves you feeling fresh and fabulous‚ these are the little indulgences that make the difference. Seem extravagant? Look at it this way: if you pamper yourself on occasion (and take good care most of the time), you’ll be more likely to enjoy the skin you’re in every day - and so will your partner(s) - potential and permanent!
Smell
There’s a reason that scent has long been a tool of seduction - our pheromones are transmitted by smell, and they play a huge part in how attraction is determined. It’s no wonder that the scents you surround yourself with can do a lot for your state of mind! If you want to revel in your sense of smell, in addition to making a special scent your signature (it should be something that makes you feel magnetic), concocting your favorite fragrances for use in your home will help you relax, and enjoy your time there‚ or set the scene for some sexy time! Whether you take the simple route (scented candles, incense), or set out to make your own essential oils (for burning or diffusing), is up to you. Home perfumer kits are available for the adventurous if you think you’d enjoy serving as your own atmospheric aromatherapist.
Sight
Let’s face it: our looks are the first thing people notice, and beyond caring for your physique (exercising and eating healthfully), and playing up your assets, finding your own personal style will go a long way to enhancing your visual appeal. However, the aim here is to connect with your own senses - not someone else’s. In the case of sight this means using colors, images and decor to set moods. Deep reds, for instance, can transform any room into a sultry den of sin. Also, try to choose decor that makes you feel good when you look at it. A little art can go a long way toward improving your attitude, and making you feel stylishly sexy (whether home alone or with your guests)!
Sound
Never underestimate the power of a personal soundtrack - when it comes to sex, sensuality or just about anything else! Music has power. And songs - or even ambient sound clips like those of ocean waves - can instantly transport you to anywhere you want to be in space or in time‚ Not to mention creating any mood you want to be in. Barry White, for example got his reputation for good reason!
Taste
No doubt, food is the world’s best aphrodisiac. Whether it’s oysters and champagne, strawberries and chocolate or the sensual act of eating anything with your hands (bonus - you’re indulging your sense of touch here as well), indulging your mouth has its obvious implications. But the sensual experience that comes with food goes far beyond your tastebuds. The feeling of being sated is a feeling of being satisfied. That is one of the reasons food and sex go… hand in hand.
ASTROLOGY FOR FUN PART 2 WATER SIGNS posted: 10 10 09
Hi Mystic Mandy is back with her crystal ball
MR SCORPIO (Intense)
Deep, Determined and Jealous key words to describe him the most mysterious of all signs and the sexiest sign of the zodiac (where does he live) It is important for this man to be fulfilled sexually (and Mentally) massage candlelight and champagne and he is yours.
MS SCORPIO ( magnetism)
Wow when this lady stings she can really hurt you. She does not usually marry the wrong man as she can sense danger (does not mind it in the bedroom) a woman not to be taken lightly. HOT PASSIONATE with meaningful sex means she is yours.
MR PISCES (Moody)
Sensitive and artistic most fascinating of all (the most psychic of the zodiac) unselfish (ha ha) and generous although erratic. Becomes bored easy does not like to be told what to do and can make lots of money if he stops procrastinating, fascinating eyes and loves water (not sports) this is no cold fish but a red hot animal (wow he is mine)
MS PISCES (attention seeker)
Emotional be careful with this lady she is sensitive and her instincts are razor sharp likes lots of attention and can behave badly to get it. Generous and unselfish with her loved ones. likes to drink and enjoy life sex is a very private thing but behind closed doors (watch out for the steam) well need I say more
MR CANCER (tenacious)
Changeable protective and loving ambitious and skilled (what a man) Cancer is sexy not frightened to show their feelings can easily relate to people a hard worker and a romantic, as a lover he is masterful (like him even more) and giving . He can be easily led astray. One of his less fetching traits is his moodiness as they are ruled by the moon and tides hence his love of water (Gin whisky Beer etc). Nothing but oodles of love making will do for Cancer .
Ms CANCER (protective)
Shrewd and caring they are kind hearted souls who have other peoples interest at heart love children and lots of attention. honest and straightforward a terrific Mother and usually a sex bomb likes to party and flirt she likes to be near water (give her a bath).
Next Month the last three signs of the Zodiac Capricorn, Sagittarius, Gemini
Love Mystic xx
CELESTIAL GUIDE TO YOUR LOVERS HOT SPOTS posted: 03 10 09
Want a hands-on celestial guide to your lover’s hot spots? Finding out where their astrological pleasure zone is could lead to some very sexy and unexpected outcomes.
Whisper kiss the small of your Leo love’s back to send thrills down their spine. Or, drive your Aries partner mad with a soft windy breath in one ear. Heighten a Pisces pleasure with little wet love bites between their toes. And that’s just for starters! Learn all you need to know for some super satisfying by sign.
ARIES: Face and head
With impulsive sensuality, play with your Aries’ hair, caress their face, graze their lips with yours, massage their head in your hands and blow warm kisses into their ears. There’s no end to the head on possibilities with your ram.
TAURUS: Neck and throat
Take a flirty approach to kissing a Taurus around their neck from back to front. Rub their earlobes and cup your hand around the back or your partner’s neck as you draw them close for long deep kisses.
GEMINI: Hands, arms, shoulders
Playfully tease them with sensual foreplay, kissing their hands and stroking their fingers. Then gently run your fingers along the inside of their arm, making a pit stop for a lick or a nibble. Then, wrap their arms around you placing their hands at your pleasure.
CANCER: Chest or breasts
With a sense of playful admiration, massage your Cancer lover’s chest with gentle strokes. Then cover their most sensuous areas with warm wet kisses, long licks and warm deep breaths. They’ll be willing, if you are, to play like this for hours.
LEO: Back
Massage your Leo’s ego as you work your way around their back. Rub it, scratch it gently, massage it. Start with those sensitive touches before moving on to kisses, licks and lip bites that linger then climax at the very sensitive small of their back.
VIRGO: Stomach
Stroke their mind with words of romantic foreplay as you stroke their stomach area lightly with your hair and fingertips. Then give them little nibbles at their sides and long licks and kisses around their belly button as their pleasure elevates to ecstasy.
LIBRA: Bottom
With a touch of drama and affection, turn your Libra onto their stomach and brush your body and intimate parts along their lower back. Gently caress their bottom with gentle strokes, pats and a trail of tongue flicks. Hold a cheek in your hand as the lovemaking moves on.
SCORPIO: Sex organs
With an erotic and inquisitive attitude, slowly pet the inner thighs working your way to your Scorpion’s most sensitive areas with a light flickering of the tongue. Brush your erogenous zones against theirs remembering their inner thighs are the area around the upper pubic bone.
SAGITTARIUS : Thighs
Rest your head in the warmth of your archer’s inner thighs. Then with a sense of fun and teasing, massage the hips and thighs with warm oil, remembering to pleasurably stroke the inside of the thighs to light this fiery sign’s senses to their utmost pleasure.
CAPRICORN: Knees
The shortcut to a goat’s pleasure is to kiss them gently, lovingly behind their knees. Run your hands along their sensitive lower back, working your way down the back of their legs, or run a length of kisses from their navel to their kneecaps. Cup one hand behind a knee as you kiss.
AQUARIUS: Calves and ankles
Using your imagination for your most creative foreplay, kiss their legs from knees to ankles. Cup your hands around each leg, one at a time, and massage the area from top to bottom rubbing up and down in long sensuous strokes. When entwined, wrap your legs around theirs for complete satisfaction.
PISCES: Feet
Arouse your Pisces easily with a bit of theatrics as you work on your partner’s feet. Massage them, kiss them from toes to ankles, suck them and cover them with love bites. Or, use a light touch or a feather to tickle their toes into a frenzy. Run your own feet over their body sensually for some oh’s and ah’s.
STAR SIGNS SEXUAL FANTASIES posted: 28 09 09
Every sign has their favourite sexual fantasy‚ that daydream setting for love or lust that plays out in your head as the ultimate sensual high. Exotic settings, chance encounters, sex with former or famous lovers, role playing or just watching are some of the more common fantasy scenarios for sex, by astrological sign. Read a lover your fantasy (and their own!) to give you plenty of insight into what makes your sun sign sigh!
Libra
Whether the scene is set at a chic Hollywood party, or a courtly event in a French castle centuries ago, the cast of characters in this fantasy are all beautiful, intelligent, fun loving and sensually flirty. Sexy scenarios abound as couples and groups begin to melt into the most elegant of lovemaking around you. You eye the partners of your choice as they mentally agree to come together to pleasure you slowly. Of course everything is secretly filmed, so you can enjoy it all again and again.
Scorpio
You are in a deep, dark woods, covered in a hooded cape, and the one who lusts for you stands in the moonlit clearing all but naked, having eagerly followed your every direction to the meeting place for your tryst. You lead your lover back into an underground cave where an upholstered black leather bed is warmed by the dim light from the tall flickering candles. You remove only your cape. Still dressed, you cover your love with foreplay for hours, until they beg you for completion.
Sagittarius
At a jazz club, a lecture, or a poetry reading you eye the person who is centre stage. You concentrate on them imagining a romance and they feel your vibe. A nod and a wink pass between you and they slip you a note that says “Ten minutes‚ back door. Till then.“ When they exit the building, you run past them. They chase you fervently. When caught you are kissed, pulled into the shadows of a building and the deed is quickly done. You walk back to their hotel, playfully stopping to hug and lock lips along the way, where champagne, a hot tandem shower and a full night of love await.
Capricorn
The setting is an elegant old house full of divine antiques and there are servants everywhere. Your much older mate seems to be on a business trip, so you have made up a list of dream lovers, including a particularly attractive postal carrier, a caterer and a divine blue-eyed person you keep locking eyes with at the tennis club. In your fantasy, opportunity knocks and knocks all in one day, as your lovers mysteriously file in and out of your luxurious bedroom for a turn at your unbridled passions, without any of the help or your mate ever being the wiser.
Aquarius
You are faced with a treasure trove of trashy lingerie with a yoga instructor or guru on a weekend ashram retreat. Or is it a low key spa overlooking watery bliss? In this imaginative mix of pleasure and spirituality, Aquarius spends their day being taken by surprise by a fun loving teacher. Physical pleasures take over while the two of you do yoga by the pool. An impromptu display of affection while being massaged produces a happy ending. You sneak off together after evening meditation with a pot of chai tea to hold tantric poses throughout the night. When the weekend ends, you smile and say goodbye waving the peace sign with a promise to meet up the same time next year.
Pisces
You and your lover are at a museum in a far away land where a collection of erotic paintings, statues and other sensual art moves you to a state of heightened sensuality. Practically drooling with desire, you do nothing about your feelings. Instead, you enjoy drinks at a nearby private club where the most astoundingly beautiful dancers are the entertainment. You have plans to meet up with friends at their hotel for a nightcap. Once inside their room, you excuse yourselves and quickly shut the bedroom door, as they enjoy a bottle of champagne and the restrained, hushed sounds of your lust.
Aries
Your lustful energy just won’t give up until you put in a booty call. But somehow wires are crossed and to your surprise you answer the door to find your fav pinup sports star at your doorstep, six-pack abs and all, challenging you to a love match. Just like you, your celebrity lover isn’t into bells and whistles, preferring to wham and bam around the house testing your agility with outrageous positions and numerous speeding orgasms. When you’re hungry and almost tired, a helicopter lands on your roof to whisk you into the air where you get extra points for making it in the sky.
Taurus
As a loving, sensual Taurus, you fantasise about a little role playing that helps slow down the action of foreplay into more play. As a flirty, seductive gigolo or a beautiful coy geisha you keep your focus on your love object, touching and soothing them into lust, until you’re ready to raise the sexual bar for some tantalising action. Your partner, in return, offers you a professional caliber strip tease after which you and your love melt into each other’s burning desire. For hours afterwards, you fan the embers of your union with adoring tender talk, entangled and wrapped in a full body embrace.
Gemini
You are holding court with poets and musicians, exotic dancers and circus performers, exploring the depths of your intellect. Your speak to an audience about love, rituals and sensuality. Immediately you are surrounded by an even larger crowd of admirers. When you conclude the crowd begins to entertain you. You are massaged, and fanned, hand fed, offered libation and serenaded. As the party dies down a curtain drops around you and the one you have most admired from your entourage. Your every sensual need and changing mood is quenched as you lie back in ecstasy.
Cancer
You have heard that a lover from your past has fallen on hard times. You get into your magic sailboat and the wind takes you to their side. You heal them with love and affection awakening the lust they once had for you as well as the gifts of great relentless pleasure they once offered you. You ask for nothing and yet they knowingly satisfy every crevasse of your being. You leave transformed, renewed and refreshed‚ tears of joy fall as you shudder knowing that the one you have rescued will lovingly ravish you for all of eternity.
Leo
You wake up on an island of great enchantment where you are covered with bejewelled robes, admired and worshipped by all. You have your choice of sexual conquests as one by one, you are courted and entertained until you challenge your favourite mates to a full romp in your quarters. Only those who are willing to enjoy love with enthusiasm and great gusto will enter the final challenge in your private den of love. Once there, you allow nature to take its course. The suitor who wins the coveted place at your side will be the one who sighs in satisfaction in tandem with you, and believes that in the glory of your lovemaking, once is simply not enough.
Virgo
Your lover appears at your door with gifts of delectable appetisers and expensive champagne, a car and driver await. Your lover takes a diamond encrusted watch from their pocket and fastens it on your wrist. An envelope is set in front of you, with a theatre playbill inside. You will be taken to a playhouse where a group of actors will make love in three acts. When you arrive at the theatre, you will check off the acts you want to see. When the actors have taken their final bows, your lover whisks you into an elevator to a spectacularly appointed penthouse made perfectly for your own role play!
The Delightful Mature Escort posted: 15 08 09
The Joys of Mature Ladies in Escorting.
They are fabulous. The end.
Mature Escorts in my mind are the best but I would say that as I am Mature and although I am not an escort I have lots of male attention in fact more than when I was younger.
It is not easy being an Escort but it is fun to be an escort you meet lots of nice men being an escort and if you do not like men and fun you should think seriously about becoming an escort.
although money is an incentive to become an escort it will go a long way if you enjoy the company of the men you are escorting.
Why Mature? some people seem to think a
woman over 36 is past it, how wrong can they be. There is something for
everyone out there and the mature woman whether she is an escort or not is certainly not at the back of the queue in my experience they are as popular as any other. I have looked at many agencies who state Mature escorts ranging from 26 to 35 what a joke.
One of the benefits of choosing Mature Escorts is their experience, some of them have been in the business much longer then the young escorts a mature escort knows how to please a man you will have to go a long way to find a better escort than the Mature Ladies. It is easy to see why Mature escorts are more popular than their younger escorts, They make wonderful companions and can converse on most subjects
Maturity brings its own rewards. Mature: Grow evolve and bloom. Most of us would prefer to mature than simply age, mature implies wisdom experience and sophistication, on the other hand Mellow suggests warmth mildness and sweetness.
The positive things regarding mature escorts , for example they are still sexy, beautiful, seductive, alluring and sensual many other words could describe the mature escort. on the other side we can say Erotic, Hot, Racy Raunchy, I could go on but I rest my case The Mature escort is here to stay.
ORIGIN OF AN ESCORT.
Late 16th Century originally denoting a body of armed men escorting travellers. From the French escorte (noun) escorter (verb)
What is an escort, it is a companion, a woman who escorts a man to a social function. Another way a man who escorts a woman to a social function.
A woman (escort ) hired to accompany someone socially
Chaperone, Hostess, Geisha, Gigalo, attendent, companion. bodyguard, convoy beau Just a few words meaning escort.
I would really like to make my site for the mature escort the best and all in one place( where a directory is concerned) as comprehensive as
possible as i am sure you agree the more listings the site has the more
potential clients seeking mature escorts will visit the site. We are now
expanding so come along for the ride all you lovely mature escorts, you have nothing to lose.
Thank you all the lovely ladies who are now on Scarlet Ladies The Best virtual club and directory for the Mature and Sexy Lady. I would also like to thank 69 DESIGN who has designed another wonderful mature escort site.
Astrology for fun posted: 15 08 09
Hi Mystic Mandy here
As it is the month for all Leo’s lets shine some light on these wonderful people, I have to say this as I am a Leo myself, a man eater or a little timid pussy cat!!!!!!!!!
The Zodiac (which is said to have originated in Babylon as long as 2,500 years ago ) is a circle of constellations through which the sun moves during the course of a year.
A humorous look at Leo.
Leos love it when people look at them so they always try to be as gorgeous and beautiful as they can.
LEO MEN: are often tall and thin with strong muscles. They have loud voices and giant doodahs (there are exceptions)
LEO WOMAN: have beautiful faces, sexy eyes and loads of long wavy hair. They like to dress up in saucy undies.
LEO CHARACTER: Leo’s are the happiest and smiliest people in the world. What they like most is partying being silly and having fun.
LEO’S IN LOVE: Leo is the most romantic star sign of all and people who are Leos fall very deeply in love, they will shower you with presents if you do not love a Leo as much as a Leo loves you his heart will be broken. They are brilliant at spending loads of money.
When it comes to SEX Leos always like to be in charge. A Leo who wants you for sex will also enjoy stroking tickling and hugging they will also want you for love and friendship as well.
MONTHLY FORCAST: Some of your previous financial delays will finally be unblocked this month. Even better than that a flurry of unexpected windfalls could be coming your way.
A word of warning ladies. Mr Leo is attentive this month but keep things interesting for them, or they are liable to wander about the plain, sniffing for other opportunities. Indulge their fantasies and let them pretend they really are in charge.
In my last blog I mentioned Aquarius, Taurus and Leo and promised a bit more info on them but not Leo this time as we have covered him above.
AQUARIUS: If you are seeking a grand emotional sexual passion, forget it. At best Mr Aquarius will be your best friend and that’s not so bad. If you are insecure jealous or looking for a man who is merely a bastion of security look elsewhere…..... He is a far more of an interesting companion than a passionate lover he is more turned on by the mind than the glamour.
TAURUS: Because his body often rules his brain Mr Taurus is most eagerly seduced by someone very sensual. Mr Taurus is highly sensual man who loves love sex and women on the other side he can remain steady and faithful albiet a little bit boring.
New ones for you
VIRGO: He is shy unassuming critical and pragmatic Mr Virgo is far more analytical than sentimental and intellectual than romantic.
LIBRA: Falling in love is probably his favourite thing however staying in love can be quite another matter He needs beauty, harmony and security. appeal to his senses spray Chanel No.5 on your sheets (we do anyway Don’t we ladies) and at all times look your most beautiful.
AIRIES: He is ardent and enthusiastic he is impulsive and aggressive He has the personality of a great warrior who wants to set the world on fire, and because he can be so wildly romantic, he may be also
able to ignite quite a flame in your heart. He holds on to his masculinity as tightly as he holds on to his manhood (which is throbbing if you must know) boy does he yearn for the times when men were men and women were grateful.
ASTROLOGY OVER UNTIL NEXT MONTH
Love mystic Mandyxx
To all the Lusty Love Goddesses My infamous Menopause Cake posted: 01 08 09
I made a Menopause cake as I am menopausal (rotweiler) my friend said I would have much more fun with a cream horn!!!!!!! In a card shop yesterday and bought a card which is very indicative THE SEVEN MENOPAUSAL DWARVES Itchy, Bitchy, Sweaty,Bloaty, Sleepy, Forgetful, Psycho. Any old wives tales for a cure of this curse??? not a poultice or some eye of bat and blood of a toad, perhaps HRT which i have been informed does contain a female horses urine (Yum) I tell you now if it made me look 10 years younger I would drink a bucketful but for the time being a large glass of Red wine will do.
No man is a fortress when a determined woman has him in her sights.. In my next few blogs I will give you all the wisdom you need to be Ms Right to the man of your dreams.
A TASTER
AQUARIUS: (Air sign) Galvanise him with your brilliance if you turn on his mind he will not care what you are wearing. More about Aquarius later next blog
LEO: (Fire Sign) Dazzle him with your beauty and style - but if you are dazzling enough to to win him, you will need to stay that way to keep him (be warned). More about Leo next blog
TAURUS: (Earth Sign) Over whelm his senses with a subtle perfume and a magnificent home-cooked meal. forget him if you would rather read in bed (boring) , More about Taurus later
When Girdles ruled the world and not a cotton gusset in sight. posted: 16 07 09
Taking you back to a bit of nostalgia if you can remember, those taking B Vitamins will, not sure about the rest.
In 1770 a bill was introduced into Parliament which said All women of whatever age rank, profession or degree whether virgins (what is that) maids(not the role play kind), or widows that shall from and after such Act impose upon, seduce, and betray into matrimony, any of His Majesty’s subjects by the scents (perfume) paints (make-up) cosmetic washes??? artificial teeth, false hair, iron stays, hoops high-heeled shoes, bolstered hips, shall incur the penalty of the law in force against witchcraft and like misdemeanors and that the marriage upon conviction shall stand null and void. (wow I am in big trouble) As far as I know this bill has never been rescinded. You have been warned. In day to day life the pursuits of beauty should be a priority. Hairdresser nothing works wonders for your morale and confidence. Beauty Therapy, Manicurist and Pedicure, Dentist, Corsets Whatever your age or size Seventeen to Seventy advice from a fitter is invaluable it can make all the difference between a droopy and a firm bosom a sleek line or a ripple of bulges. Remember when pennies really count you will always remain attractive if you are well groomed and keep fresh and tidy with clean hair. in all age groups a woman will be happier if she knows that youth is not a birthday that falls under the age of twenty but a state of mind that exists in every woman. Off to get some Botox and my lips done (the ones on my face) Any one had a designer vagina? Any beauty tips things that work for you share them with us I need as much as I can get.
A wonderful Response posted: 03 06 09
Thank you all the lovely ladies who are now on Scarlet Ladies The Best virtual club and directory for the Mature and Sexy Lady. I would also like to thank 69 Design who has designed another wonderful site. Please do not forget the forums as feedback would be much appreciated. Thank you again until the next blog.
Mandy xx
Expansion posted: 02 06 09
New Blog New Forum, New Listing section, Twitter feed, just some of the features already here and a lot more to come. Welcome to the site for the Mature Woman .
Maturity brings its own rewards. Mature: Grow evolve and bloom. Most of us would prefer to mature than simply age, mature implies wisdom experience and sophistication, on the other hand Mellow suggests warmth mildness and sweetness.
I would like my site to project the positive things regarding mature women for example they are still sexy beautiful seductive alluring and sensual many other words could describe the mature lady. on the other side we can say Erotic, Hot, Racy Raunchy, I could go on but I rest my case Maturity wins…......